Sunday, January 10, 2010

Baby Grace

She's finally here! Our baby girl was born on New Year's Eve and she made quite an entrance. Last week Steve was joking around with me during a moment of stress and said "well our little girl is in 'breech' of contract."A few days before Grace was born we found out that what we thought was her bottom was actually her head. Yep, our baby girl decided that she liked to be right side up instead up upside down... and nothing would make her budge... she was what is medically termed as a"breech" baby. Interestingly this occurs in only 3% of pregnancies... Grace likes to do things different, just like her mom :)
Her first night home...Getting ready for bed in soft jammies...A proud daddy...So, I will now tell you the iteresting story of the days before Grace's birth. The day after we got the news, we decided to try EVERYTHING we could to turn our baby. I did handstands in a pool, layed for hours at a 30 degree incline, attempted a headstand, coaxing with music, wrapping my belly with an ace wrap, and chasing her with an ice pack. None of these natural measures seemed to work. So the next day I went to the hospital to have what is called a "version" to manually turn the baby. This just left me with a sore red belly.
The next day I was having consistent contractions and I thought that there was a possibility that I could be in labor. We finally decided to go to the hospital, when we arrived my contractions seemed to stop completely... I basically spent 4 hours hooked up to a monitor for no reason. They asked me if I wanted to schedule a c-section while I was there. I was totally exhausted and I felt that for some reason our baby wasn't supposed to turn. I asked if I could schedule it for the next day (New Year's Eve). Apparently it was completely booked up and I couldn't be scheduled unil the following Tuesday. I went home discouraged and exhausted.
Trying to coax her with music...
With the help of some Ambien, I finally got good nights sleep. The much needed sleep must have given my tired body the energy to actually go into labor. I had contractions all day that definetly felt different than before. I didn't want to go to the hospital for fear that the contractions would stop, but they were getting pretty intense. By the time I finally gave into the idea that it was "real" labor, my contractions were 2 min. apart and lasted a good 45 sec.-1 min. We got to the hospital at 6:30 and baby Grace was born an hour later.
I never even considered the idea that I may have a c-section during my pregnancy. I spent a lot of time planning my natural childbirth and pushed the alternatives aside. Grace was pretty much folded in half inside of me (she looked like a diver in a pike position). I couldn't imagine trying have a vaginal birth considering the circumstances. I am just grateful that she arrived safely and that I was still able to make it a special experience. Before I had the c-section, I gave the nurse this blanket to wrap her in. I hung it in my closet so that it would have my scent since I couldn't hold her immediatly after she was born. After a quick weigh in and other measurements, Steve was able to bring her close to me. (She came in at 6 lbs. 12 oz. and 22 inches long).The whole procedure was actually pretty quick and she was in my arms just 1/2 hr. later.I told the nurses not to give her a bath until I was able to get up and share that experience with Steve... she didn't like it all that much, but she loved having her hair rinsed under the faucet.We arrived home a day early. I did laps around the nurses station while pushing Grace in the bassinet... they really had no reason to keep me another day.Grace has been such a good baby. I am so grateful that our little angel is here... we love her so much.

18 lovely notes:

Brenbren said...

Congratulations. So lucky everything turned out good. What a beautiful baby girl!

Evan and Amber said...

Thanks for the update...Looks like everyone is doing well!

Julia said...

Hi Cara! I'm so happy to hear that you and Grace are doing well! I also had an unplanned C-section with little Ethan, so I know what it's like to plan for one way, but have it go a whole other way!

Kristin said...

I am so happy for you. Grace looks perfect. I'm looking forward to visiting sometime when you and Grace are up for it. Congratulations!

Anonymous said...

I'm so happy the delivery went well for you even though it wasn't the way you planned. She is a beautiful baby girl and I can't wait to meet her.
CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS!!!!!!!!

Deidre said...

Can't wait to see her in person! Let me know when you are feeling up to visitors because we are here. Glad everything went well even with a c-section.

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Emily said...

Oh Cara! You did it!! I am so excited for you! She is such a little angel, and I can't wait to meet her in person! I'm glad you are doing well! I haven't wanted to call in fear of waking you up from resting. I'll call soon! Love you! Em

Kendra said...

Cara, she's beautiful!! Just like you! Congratulations! I hope I can see her soon.

Michelle Glauser said...

Yay!

Plowgian Page said...

Oh Cara- I want to reach right through the computer screen and pick her up. That picture of her in the little pink dress. AHHHH, I'm sad I'm in Utah and your in Arizona!

Emily said...

Congratulations Cara! It seems like you handled the unexpected very well, and did still find ways to make it a special experience. The pictures of your little girl are so amazing!

brooke and chad coon said...

She is so precious! Congrats! Love the name - Eli would have been Grace too if he had been a girl :)

The Matthews Family said...

She is such a cute little girl! Seriously though, if you need help with her, or just want a rest, give me a call! (I'll post my number here and hope it's safe!) 208-317-6671 or 623-234-4051. Like I told you at church today, I have been there so don't feel embarrassed to ask me to help!

Lenice said...

Cara and Steve, what a sweet baby. I have to say I see more of Cara in her than Steve. What a blessing. Glad you are all doing well. We love you all!

James.Megan.Ava.Fischer said...

She's adorable!!! Congrats again. How's the recovery going? Our version didn't work either, obviously. Wasn't it the worst experience ever! Hope all is going well for your little family. Couldn't ask for a better place to have a January baby, none of that bundling them up.

Tara and Ricky said...

Oh Cara!!! Congrats friend and what a crazy story... Isn't it funny how they are just going to do whatever they want regardless of your plans:) Give me a call when you have a chance. I totally understand that life with a new baby gets busy busy busy so just whenever you have time. I need your address so I can send you Davis's birth announcement and some $ for sending our stuff. Talk to you later

Criscell said...

Congrats you guys!!! She is darling!! I'm so sorry things didn't go as planned but glad that she was okay.